Courage to grow
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Courage to grow

Facing Fear and Letting Go

For years, I’ve let fear hold me back—fear of failure, fear of looking foolish, fear of asking for help. It’s easier to hide behind my mess than to risk opening up and facing judgment. Sound familiar? It’s a limiting belief that I’ve carried for far too long, but I’m choosing to leave it behind in 2024.

As I greet 2025, I’m committing to sitting with discomfort and embracing vulnerability. I’m learning to ask for help, even when shame threatens to take over. I no longer need to carry the weight of hyper-independence—I have a beautiful support system I can lean on. Trusting the process and unlearning the societal “shoulds” that have boxed me in are my guiding themes this year.

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Shift in Energy
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Shift in Energy

Astrological Transits in Focus

One of the most significant transits astrologers are buzzing about is Pluto’s move into Aquarius. This shift brings deep themes of death, rebirth, and transformation, especially for the fixed signs and the area of your natal chart influenced by Aquarius. While it may sound intense, remember: this is your moment to step into your power. Outdated beliefs and habits are ready to fall away, clearing space for fresh energy and perspectives to take root over the next 19 years.

The second key transit to be aware of is Mercury Retrograde, from November 25 to December 15. This isn’t a time to fear but rather an invitation to slow down, reassess, and revisit your energetic boundaries. Avoid rushing or falling into scarcity mindsets—it only creates unnecessary stress. Instead, allow this retrograde to guide you toward clarity and alignment.

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Case of the Ex
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Case of the Ex

This week, I wanted to dive a little deeper into the topic of energetic cords—specifically, energetic hooks. Ever heard of having “watchers” in your aura? It’s essentially when weak spots in your auric field cause energetic leakage, allowing those who might wish you ill (like an ex-friend or past partner) to attach themselves to your energy and keep tabs on you. It's wild but very real, and these types of energetic hooks and drains can leave you feeling depleted or weighed down.

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Cord Cutting
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Cord Cutting

So, how can we recognize cords, hooks, or drains? Think about a moment when you’ve had a disagreement or an emotional interaction with someone close, and afterward, you just can’t get them out of your mind. Maybe you even feel drained, despite having had plenty of rest. Or perhaps you feel sadness or irritability that seems to come out of nowhere. These can all be signs of an energetic cord with that person. Sometimes, cords connect us to even deeper energies, like ancestral or past-life bonds.

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Coven of Bad Witches
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Coven of Bad Witches

I’ve been pondering how to bring this vision into reality, to create a gathering space for those of us who seek that deep, soulful connection. Maybe it’s through monthly coven meetings, virtual circles, or themed rituals where we can dive into collective intention-setting, shadow work, or simply revel in each other’s presence. I haven’t landed on the “how” just yet, but sharing this here feels like the first step.

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Saturn Return To Sender
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Saturn Return To Sender

First off, everyone experiences a Saturn return—it’s a cosmic rite of passage! A Saturn return occurs when Saturn returns to the same astrological sign it was in at the time of your birth. This happens every 29-31 years, so we typically go through two or even three Saturn returns in a lifetime. The first usually hits around ages 29-31, the second from ages 59-61, and for those lucky enough to experience a third, it arrives around 88-90 years old.

Why Saturn Matters

Saturn is the planet of time, structure, discipline, and karma. It’s often seen as the taskmaster of the zodiac, bringing us lessons that, while tough, are crucial for our growth. Think of Saturn as the stern parent who makes sure you get your life in order. It’s not always easy, but it’s necessary.

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Aries Full Moon
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Aries Full Moon

Aloha mai, and welcome back to my little mystical corner of the interwebs! This week, I’m shifting gears into some astrology to break down the energy of the Aries full moon—the first Aries full moon in 2.5 years that isn’t under the influence of eclipse energy. This full moon peaks on Thursday, October 17th, and brings a fresh start that Aries and the other cardinal signs have been working hard for. But before we can fully embrace this new beginning, we need to release whatever is holding us in place and take that leap forward, no matter how uncertain or intimidating the path may seem.

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Spring Cleaning
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Spring Cleaning

Aloha, and welcome back to my little corner of the interwebs, where we talk all things astrology, energy healing, and mystical insights. This week, I want to share a gem of wisdom that came through for me while I was deep cleaning, clearing, and reorganizing my home. Just like we regularly clean our physical spaces, it’s important to make a ritual of deep cleaning and reorganizing our emotions, manifestations, and deeply rooted beliefs. Doing so creates the space we need to welcome in new energies and shift our perspectives on the challenges that keep us stuck.

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Past Lives & Soul Ties
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Past Lives & Soul Ties

Past life work is a powerful tool for understanding who we are today. First, it helps us identify the key players from past lives who are connected to important people in our current life—whether these connections are positive or challenging. These soul connections unlock parts of ourselves that we may not have realized existed, leading to profound healing. Often, these blockages can be hidden, making it all the more powerful when we uncover and address them. Second, past life work allows us to cut karmic or soul ties that may still be influencing our relationships today, helping us improve these connections and heal on a deeper level.

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The in-between
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The in-between

This reflection also brought me to the concept of death and rebirth that comes with every new level of growth. When we outgrow where we’re at, we need to be “repotted,” so to speak, and that can be an uncomfortable adjustment. Some emotions, old patterns, or energies need to wilt and fade away so that we can make space for the new growth that’s emerging.

This phase can feel isolating and uncomfortable. Right now, that’s what’s happening in the stars too—we’re in between eclipses, in the thick of this death and rebirth process. So instead of freaking out over a few yellowing leaves, let’s embrace it as part of the process. Your roots are expanding, establishing a new foundation. Every time you rise to a new level, there’s going to be some shedding and pruning.

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Nurturing My Inner Child
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Nurturing My Inner Child

Rather than laying blame on myself or my parents for these emotional wounds, I was encouraged to acquaint myself with and befriend my inner child. Initially, she seemed like a stranger, distant and cold, wounded by my abandonment as I sought approval and conformity to fit in. She harbored feelings of loneliness and resentment, yearning for the love and support that I failed to provide her, the way I needed it myself.

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Embracing the Cosmic Dance
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Embracing the Cosmic Dance

In the vast celestial tapestry, Taurus the bull stands as an earthly embodiment of abundance and indulgence. Its reign as the steadfast sentinel of the second house is guided by none other than the enchanting Venus, a planet that weaves a captivating tale of luxury and a fondness for riches. This unyielding earth sign holds the keys to material wealth and financial prosperity, casting a spell that mesmerizes us all.

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Navigating Eclipse Season
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Navigating Eclipse Season

As we journey through the enigmatic tapestry of eclipse season, a symphony of celestial messages unfolds. The cosmos, in its wisdom, guides us through challenges and transformations, urging us to align with our intuition, and beckoning us to release the shackles of victim mentalities.

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Aries Activation
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Aries Activation

With this surge of energy, it's essential to keep your cool and remember the old adage, "don't start none, won't be none!" The heightened energy can sometimes lead to impulsivity and rash decisions. However, with a conscious effort to channel this energy positively, you can achieve remarkable feats during this time.

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