Courage to grow

Aloha mai! Welcome back to my little corner of the internet.

I know it’s been a while—two whole months!—but I have a good reason. I spent the holidays back in the States, reconnecting with family and friends. It was a heartwarming time to simply be present and soak in every ounce of love and quality time.

But the highlight of my trip? I became an aunty for the very first time! My youngest sister welcomed a beautiful baby boy at the end of November, and let me tell you—baby bliss is real. Holding his tiny hands, admiring his perfect little toes, and seeing my family’s features reflected in this precious new soul was nothing short of magical. Watching my sister step into her role as a mother and my parents embrace grandparenthood stirred something deep within me. It made me profoundly grateful for my family while also reminding me of the sacrifices that come with living far from home.

Saying a hui hou to my loved ones is never easy, and this time, it felt especially hard. So much of my heart wanted to stay anchored in the comfort of home. Yet, somewhere over the ocean on my flight back, I had a revelation: leaving that comfort zone—no matter how painful—has been essential for my soul’s growth. Staying where it felt safe would have kept me from the experiences that have shaped who I am today.

Facing Fear and Letting Go

For years, I’ve let fear hold me back—fear of failure, fear of looking foolish, fear of asking for help. It’s easier to hide behind my mess than to risk opening up and facing judgment. Sound familiar? It’s a limiting belief that I’ve carried for far too long, but I’m choosing to leave it behind in 2024.

As I greet 2025, I’m committing to sitting with discomfort and embracing vulnerability. I’m learning to ask for help, even when shame threatens to take over. I no longer need to carry the weight of hyper-independence—I have a beautiful support system I can lean on. Trusting the process and unlearning the societal “shoulds” that have boxed me in are my guiding themes this year.

Your Comfort Zone Is Holding You Back

Now, I want to ask you: where in your life are you playing it safe? What dreams or ideas have you talked yourself out of because you didn’t think you could pull them off? What lights you up that you’ve been too scared to pursue?

Imagine how your life could expand if you built structures and systems that support your growth instead of limiting it. What if you stopped letting fear run the show and allowed curiosity and courage to lead instead?

Let’s Explore Your Next Steps Together

If these questions resonate with you, I’d love to help you explore them deeper. My 2025 Year Ahead Readings are still available! In this personalized, emailed reading, we’ll navigate the tricky, uncomfortable energies you’re facing with clarity and confidence. There’s no manual for how to handle the year ahead, but I can help you recognize self-sabotaging patterns before they trip you up and offer tools to push past fear so you can manifest your most aligned, soul-full life.

Here’s to expansion, exploration, and leaning into the magic of possibility.

With love and light,
Aloha nui,
Alohilani